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Hey,

I need your help.

Pls keep this in mind..... im greek,ok. my parents are greek..ok... they are quite traditional n i try not to disapoint them in any way... so i stay out of trouble...etc...

 

Anyway,

I was 'getting to know' (no sexual contact was made-purly conversation) this guy right, n we wanted to see eachother. so he asked if he could come over n i said yes.

Me not thinking (like ussual), just assumed he would stay in the car/up the front, n chat there. But he ACTUALY rang the door bell n came in, which i thought was very ballsy seeing as he knew of my greek background, i guess you can say that i admierd him for that. having the courage to come n meet my parents..

 

Or

 

he just didn't know what he was getting me into by comming n meeting my parents......lol

 

anywho, my mum n dad LOVED him. right..... yehhh, you may think that is nice. i mean dont get me wrong, i am very happy to see that my parents realy liked him..

 

But, now for my delema..........

 

we dont talk anymore (me n this guy) dont ask me why, cause i honestly have no frigan idea what happend..

BUT my mum still is asking about him....??

aaahhh, i have told her not to ask about him anymore. n i told her that we are no longer talking...bbbuuutttt nnnnooooo, she still belive's that we are"boyfriend n girlfriend" (yeh, it's cute - but not if your in my shoes)..

 

 

NOW, i HATE to disapoint my mum n dad, but how should i make it clear to them that theres nothing to be of he n i...?????

 

 

 

 

It would be much appreciated if you guys just focused on how im going to resolve this litle delema,

instead if dissing anybody(in which is unessasery).......

 

 

Thanks heaps

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Its not often that parents of a chick, LOVE the guy friend

 

UNLESS:

-Good looking

-Wealthy himself or parents wealthy

-Well mannered and had the right topics to talk about with your parents.

 

Just a quick question, was the ' GUY ' greek also?

 

My boss is greek and he LOVES the greek history.

 

'i reckon just tell your parents, we are no longer together he went out with another girl and cheated on me' :) at least they will get the point..

 

BUT i hate to be the guy if your parents run into him on the street haahah

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how fkning old are you?! you sound like ur bloody 10.

 

if thats the height of your problems right now... ur living a sheltered life.

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I look greekish... you can take me home and we can pretend im that same guy...

 

but the non sexual thing has to go...

 

 

ok i can see u attacking me so ill defend my self now...

 

im 23! dont tell me to grow up!

how old are you? u must be 18 cause you havent brang a guy over to meet the oldies yet.

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don't tell your parents he cheated on you.

Say he went overseas to fight in the french foreign legion or something.

 

Pardon my stupidity but why is bad for greek parents to meet some guy friend of yours. Do they traditionally hate none greek people with their daughters or something?

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ring him and ask him if everythings ok, and see if he wants too meet up. if he says no then you know nothing is to come of it, if he says kewl sure then wammo. simple as that.

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What fckn dilema?

I don't see the problem anywhere, am i just blind or what?

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IS this really a problem? Just tell them and make it very clear.. simple. Are they really going to be that dissapointed becasue it didn't work out with some random guy. Even if they are, there comes a point where you have to start living your own life.

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Go buy a men's t-shirt, write in the collar the guy's name, lets say "John."

Soak it in sea water.

Get someone who doesn't know your parents to ring the doorbell.

 

When the parents answer, get them to say:

"John went fishing last night and disappeared. This was all that we found. We thought your daughter should have it"

 

Then they drop the tshirt on the ground, or almost throw it at your parents if the fly screen door is open, then run off.

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What fckn dilema?

I don't see the problem anywhere, am i just blind or what?

 

 

I must be blind too im not seeing a problem either.

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lol wdf... be glad your parents didn't chase him out of the house with weapons of mass destruction. you're one of the lucky ones. age?

 

kon

 

btw... why would you tell someone you have never met, off the internetz your home address?

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Go buy a men's t-shirt, write in the collar the guy's name, lets say "John."

Soak it in sea water.

Get someone who doesn't know your parents to ring the doorbell.

 

When the parents answer, get them to say:

"John went fishing last night and disappeared. This was all that we found. We thought your daughter should have it"

 

Then they drop the tshirt on the ground, or almost throw it at your parents if the fly screen door is open, then run off.

LOL!

 

love the finishing touches.... throws it at the oldies, then runs away ahahhaha

 

I was thinking of somthing allong the lines of a letter... "Im leaving you.. ps im gay!"

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This can't be true.

 

You are Greek right. He was not Greek and your parents LOVED him.

 

Somethings not adding up here.

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year.....s ago...

lol waits for the other thread by some random titled

 

"so heres my dilemma"

 

"so i went to meet up with this chick.. some greek chick to try get my dick wet... n i know that her parents are traditional and shes appreciate it if i went up to her door so i did.. i mean f**k it jsut wanted to root her... ne ways charmed her dad... then e got some alone time... no go... al she kept goin on about was her parents liking me, how impressed she was.. here i was thinkin "that outa open her legs up" but no cigar... not even close.. if she was wroth it id tell ehr to f**k off.. but she aint.. my dilemma is, i left my ciggie deck (silver case kind) at her house... any1 here wana talk to her n get it?"

 

 

 

 

 

in all seriousness

 

CALL HIM!

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how fkning old are you?! you sound like ur bloody 10.

 

if thats the height of your problems right now... ur living a sheltered life.

 

you sir are a man of wisdom, oh so true! :wub:

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year.....s ago...

lol waits for the other thread by some random titled

 

"so heres my dilemma"

 

"so i went to meet up with this chick.. some greek chick to try get my dick wet... n i know that her parents are traditional and shes appreciate it if i went up to her door so i did.. i mean f**k it jsut wanted to root her... ne ways charmed her dad... then e got some alone time... no go... al she kept goin on about was her parents liking me, how impressed she was.. here i was thinkin "that outa open her legs up" but no cigar... not even close.. if she was wroth it id tell ehr to f**k off.. but she aint.. my dilemma is, i left my ciggie deck (silver case kind) at her house... any1 here wana talk to her n get it?"

 

 

 

 

 

in all seriousness

 

CALL HIM!

 

LMFAO ahahaah :ph34r:

 

 

 

Um i did the exact same thing wid one of my previous girlfriends, cept i stayed wid her for 2 n abit years...ohyea and, of course, i rooted her b4 meeting her parents lol

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I say get yourself a nice greek boy. :D;):P

 

everytime i start hanging out with new girls the first question my dad asks me is whats her background, and i know he's disappointed when I dont say greek :lol:

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You could say he was Italian couldn't you?

 

Or tell your mum he came too quickly... Trust me.. your mum wouldn't want you ending up with someone like your dad.

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Being female with italian parents i can see how this is a problem for you.

 

The reason your parents are probably so concerned is because the wog dream is for their daughters to grow up, marry a nice guy and have babies - very old fashioned and crazy i believe but it makes me feel sorry for you.

 

The best thing for you in my opinion is to tell your parents that you were the one who changed your mind about this boy. Tell them that you couldnt see yourself with him because you couldnt relate to him or his family, and tell them that you are really looking for someone that you know they will love. They probably were just excited that you had found a nice boy (i know wogs, they think the only boy you bring home is the one you will marry). Let them down gently and tell them that you are still young and want to make the right choice.

 

If this guy comes back up keep him hidden for as long as possible.

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